countnumber7 asked: I've come to accept my weight over the years and it's gone up and down. Recently it's gone up which I'm okay with and most of my friends and my partner don't have a problem with it but I was wondering you had any good advise or comments I can tell people politely when they make a negative comments towards my weight.
I find the best thing to do is to resist laughing it off. If they laugh because they think they are saying it as a harmless joke (which lots of people I know do), don’t laugh with them. Just give them a “yeah that fucking hurt me” face! haha
Just tell them it’s not cool and ask how they would like it if you were to comment negatively on some aspect of their own appearance! xxx
imarealistimaromantic asked: Happy birthday you blue haired beauty! Hope you have a lovely day doll. 💙🎂✨💜
Thank you!!! Xxx
creepygirlsdontsmile asked: Hi :) I was wondering what kind of music you listened to? Have a super duper nice day!
Everything from classical to heavy metal. I love all genres if it’s done well :)
angel-nova asked: Happy birthday! We have it on the same day :D hope you have an awesome day! <3
Happy birthday to you too! 11/12/13, it’s a special one this year :D
sometimes I almost feel sorry for nph because he’s literally so perfect and that must be a lot of pressure but at the same time im like hell yeah thank you bless this man
So which parent doesn’t the child need? The mother or the father?
See, this is how you separate a hateful Christian bigot from someone who’s actually concerned about children. Given your questions, single parent households should concern you more than households headed by homosexual parents. There are more single parents than there are homosexual couples who are parents. Yet I’ve never seen you show the slightest concern for single parents. The conclusion is simple: you’re an anti-gay Christian bigot who only cares about the gay rights issue because his Bronze Age scripture says homosexuality is a sin.
lilahbones asked: We share the same birthday! Happy Birthday to us!!! ♥
Yaay! Birthday buddies :D
merrymisanthrope asked: Hi Scarlet. I hope this isn't too intrusive. I was just wondering if you're based in/near Birmingham because I recognise a few of the places and people you've name-dropped and it would be lovely to nose further :3 Also you are a very pretty lady.
Nope. I’m very far away from there. But I’ve been twice and plan to go back <3
thehospitalformysoul asked: I just want to thank you about the "Real Woman" video. Lots of plus size models are like "Skinny girls look disgusting, women should be curvy" etc and this really makes me pissed off because I'm skinny since my childhood and I can't change that. I have fast metabolism so I can't even do basic workout stuff because I lose weight very very fast. People just want to do understand that and judging skinny people. Thank you, again. You are absolutely gorgeous.
You’re very welcome. It’s something I feel strongly about and had been meaning to talk about for a long time.
Sex is not a goddamn performance.
Sex should feel as natural as drinking water.
It should not require confidence.
Sex should happen, because the moment is ripe.
Ripening lips, ripening labia, ripening cock, ripening pupils, ripening state of being. Ripe and augmented and brimming. Your energy goes to your pumping heart, then to every external nerve, then to theirs, on fire.
You bask, roll, play in it. You sigh, moan, laugh.
It’s not about being “good in bed.”
It’s about being happy.
One should never worry if they’re doing it “correctly.” Sex is not factual. I don’t want your cookie-cutter sex, I don’t want your meticulously crafted, calculated, fool-proof fuck. I don’t want a show. I want you. Let your instincts, urges and whims define that. It’s enough.
What do most girls like? Forget about it. Statistics are meaningless when there’s only one. Hello, here’s me. Here’s you.
Don’t worry about taking it too slow. We got time. We got infinite rhythms, combinations, possibilities. Explore each fuck. Take our time. We can do a different one later.
Don’t worry about making me come. I’m here. Right where I want to be.
I am overwhelmed by wanting; you don’t have to convince me. I want you because I like you. So don’t put on a front. Don’t taint this.
I’m frustrated—it’s just authenticity I want.
Don’t say that something I like is ugly. Don’t compare yourself to the rest. You will live and die with and within your experiences like everyone else. If someone thinks you are amazing, they are not wrong. Their universe is as real as any other; it is forged through perception.
I don’t care if you accidentally slammed my head into the wall, if you slipped out, if my arm cracked, if the delightful pressure of your wet lips on my anything made a silly sound. There is no right way and no wrong way.
“Good in bed,” what.
You’re good in my bed. I’m pleased you’re there. I feel it suits you.
Shove your technique. Let your memory swallow it. Fuck me like you’d fuck me, fuck me like you feel.
This isn’t a test."